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Originally Posted by jsot  Yes, but how do you know that actually want to talk to you and are not just too polite to say that they'd rather not? |
I don't really have this problem because me and my friends are really honest with each other. If I'm done talking to them, or I don't feel like talking, I say so, and they have told me the same thing. Plus I know them well enough to understand the tone of their voice, so if they sound like they don't want to be on the phone, or if they are busy, then I take the hint and say, "ok, well I'll let you go now."
I guess I'm just at a point where my friendships are straight forward. I don't like drama like "does he really want to hang out, or is he just saying it because I ask him to?" I used to worry about that when I was a teenager, but I'm much more secure with myself and my friends now. Maybe it just comes with age (not to say that I am old and wise, I'm only 23).