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Originally Posted by AK47 You COULD read if you wanted to, etc. really what it all comes down to though is you do what's best for you; whatever makes you happy. if you're happy being highly social, etc, then screw reading! |
My problem is that I'm not sure which part will give me more happiness.
Or better, I think I need both forms of happiness in order to feel completely happy:
I need both the thrill of reading a good novel and the exploratory feeling of learning more and more new interesting people.
However, for some reason (I GUESS that it's a time management reason...), the two types of activity have started excluding each other after the change...
When I'm right in the middle of a highly social situation, rarely thoughts occur such as "Oh, now's the right time to read a good book!"
I kind of become a bit too immersed in the social situation that
I forget everything else.
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Originally Posted by ZHereford  [...]
in the beginning they will take a back seat to getting to know your woman and establishing a good relationship. Once that settles down, other activities will become more prominent again. |
Hehe, OK, but
1) isn't that a bit... double standard-ish?
2) How do you decide which aspect of your life needs most priority? What if you have numerous priorities at the same time...?