The problem I have with asking questions is i start to feel nosy,like maybe they don't want somebody prying into their life without them willingly offering the information. It also seems desperate and clingy to me,to just sit and barrage this person with questions when you barely know them,like the only thing on your mind is THIS PERSON and there isnt even a you anymore. I think that you have to have a feeling of "go with the flow" when conversing with new people. It's much more free feeling,and casual,and loose. Not so much like a job interview then. I've ALWAYS felt this way when having awkward first meetings with people,like it was just a job interview. My advice is to talk about whatever you're thinking about,and kinda dwell on one subject for as long as you can,but be free with it,kinda like joke around within the subject. Some of the best conversations i've had weren't even about a subject,just casual funny comments back and forth,goofy and random. It feels too forced if you have to come up with question and answer based conversation. |