 conversations, why cant i hold them?
Hi, this is my first thread here asking for advice. here goes..
basically im a pretty confident person and it really grinds my gears that sometimes i seem to really struggle to find anything to talk about with people.
This is quite a general thing, Take tonight for example... I was out for a couple of drinks with friends from college and apart from talking about our lesson I really couldnt find much to talk about with any of them.
I suppose what annoys me the most is that i consider myself pretty intelligent, im confident and there are things that i like and have an opinion on..i just seem to get into a scenario whereby my mind is blank and theres an odd moment where we're both looking around.
So, I dont know what exactly is holding me back...i must admit i do feel a little bit insecure in myself as to whether people find me dull or interesting and i suppose im adding more pressure onto myself, maybe someone has experienced the same, maybe theyve found a way to become masters of conversation..all i know is that im out tomorrow night pubbing and clubbing and for the small amount of time i will be conversing inbetween venues id like to hold the conversation and be interesting!
enlighten me!
j
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