Well I really appreciate everybody who has given me advice.
I will try to sink these advices in and put it into action.
Another thing I was concerned about is that what can I do to make my girlfriend more interested in me?
For example, We have totally different schedules.
She has a 9-5 job and I usually go to school during the day and work during the nights, so the only time I get to see her is after I get off which is around 1am.
I come home from work and I would try to engage into a conversation of how her day went.
"How was your day at work today?" Then she would rant about how stressful work was and I would respond...there is silence for a moment hoping I would be asked the same question but.............conversation ends.
Eventually I would try to bring up something that happened throughout my day and we would go to sleep and new day starts.
Maybe she is just too tired to engage in a conversation at 1am...
Our Saturday schedule matches up quite well. She gets off around 1pm and I get off around 2pm...Again I would ask how her day went..she rants about her stressful morning, but the same questions is not asked for me..
Personally, I would like to be asked about how I'm doing or how my day went so that I would know that my spouse has somewhat of an interest towards me.
Is this an issue or am I just being too selfish?
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