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Originally Posted by Faye this is my deep breath before the plunge. i work tonight and then i will not be online again to read everything for many days. i am trying my best to soak it all up, because i am about to have to face many things.
words are as powerful as you allow them to be. you don't know how much it means to me.
thanks for the support, Rob, because it really does mean something.
~faye |
Even though this is just an online forum you really do come across as a warm, caring, loving & genuine person and your bf just screwed by tossing you aside for his "polyamorous" ways.
If one thing I can guarantee is this, once he loses you, he will be heart broken, call it karma, call it what goes around comes around but he will feel it, and it will be a mistake he regrets for a very long time in his life.
The saying "you never know what you have until you lose it" couldn't be more appropriate here. When he loses you he will know it and the freedom you gain because of this can only lead to bigger & better things for you.
You've finally gained some clarity & wisdom on a situation that's probably been bothering you for quite some time. I know from personal experience that it feels awesome when the answers to problems/questions that have been swimming around in your head for a long time finally come and when they do come, they bring alot of other answers along with them to (ie. where to go from here, new direction in life, a sense of real happiness, self-realization, tapping into your hidden potential, boosting your self-esteem, etc.)
YOU GO GIRL!!!
(then I follow up my cheesy saying with that snapping thing with my fingers along with waving my hand and shaking my head, this probably didn't get described properly but it was funny enough to describe it anyways)