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Originally Posted by robc  You can't control your spouses actions, you can only control your own. When you judge people based on their actions, that means you base your love for that person based on those actions instead of basing your love for that person because of the person they are. Do you love the person your with or do you love the things they do for you?
It's like people who have relationship crisis' or mid life crisis' and feel that they have to drop everything they currently have and go for something new.
The problem is that doesn't work. You buy a new house, you buy a new car, you get a new spouse, you get a different job, in the end, the common denominator that never changes is you. |
So in order to fix my relationship -ultimately- I would have to change.
Am I being judgmental towards my girlfriend?
I want to change not just for her, but for myself...I want to become a better person.