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Originally Posted by Angela  Yes, it's not your job to figure out how to make her happy. It sounds like she is waiting for you to lead her, but you are looking for a partner. Basically, two conflicting values. That's just too hard in a relationship, like a vegan and a carnivore, or a catholic and an atheist.
Just because you love each other doesn't mean you have to be together. I agree that your upcoming separation is a great opportunity for you to think about it. If I were you though, I would talk to her about this differing values thing before she leaves, and with lots of love and generosity, so that you can both feel good about it.
Good luck. |
Angela, I would really like to thank you for advice.
I just realized -from what you said- what type of relationship I'm in with her. I'm glad I came to this forum for advice.
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Originally Posted by Angela That's just too hard in a relationship, like a vegan and a carnivore, or a catholic and an atheist. |
Do you think this type of relationship can be fixed?