I too would like to discuss the idea of rechanneled sex energy. I've got a very active libido, both from a spiritual sexuality (i.e. liking intimacy, physical affection, etc) and a physical one (I get very uncomfortable if I don't orgasm at least once in a 24 hour period - I'm on a nearly 40 y/o man - and I don't mean adolescent discomfort, like erections - I mean the other plumbling kind of discomfort). Learning how to redirect some of that would be a huge plus, for me.
Tantric sex includes sex but the actual act of intercourse itself is a smaller part of it then you might have been led to believe, Munish. A lot of it is building intimacy through touch, shared meditiation and bodily awareness, similar to what you mentioned. |