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Originally Posted by Jamie  ... or is the wanting that hurts, wanting things to be other than as they are? |
When you want people or things to be other than what they are, you are saying a big fat NO to reality. I like what Byron Katie says about it: when you argue with reality, you lose every time. It's a sure recipe for suffering.
Anyway, you are creating what's real in the first place, so you would just be saying NO to yourself. Insanity!