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Originally Posted by PianoManGidley  I really can't give too much advice other than that you have to start really analyzing your relationship with her and decide whether or not you think she is "the one" you are looking for. You're also still quite young, and there's nothing at all wrong with taking many more years before you find a life-long partner. |
To be honest she could possibly be "the one" for me. But at times(most of the time) when we sit down together to have a dinner our conversation would go as far as "so..what did you do today?" and she would reply with a closed ended answer...
I feel as if we have nothing in common to talk about, but then again we love each other...
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Originally Posted by kboleski She sounds like a fantastic, loving, FORGIVING, understanding woman. Are you ready for her?
On another note, living together before marriage is not a good idea. I don't want to hear from all the "do what ever you want" people. Too many studies on this subject have proven that it is detrimental to a relationship, especially after marriage. We live in a "If it doesn't work, I can get out of it" mindset that destroys the ability to keep with that kind of committment. That mindset doesn't change after you get married either. Be careful and I hope you work this out. |
Maybe living together with her might not have been the greatest decision I made, but what's done is done.
I actually don't feel as if I'm connecting with her, but I want to change that. I don't want to get out of it just because it's not working out.....
Am I just making things complicating for myself? Is the problem really her or can it be myself? When I'm with her my mind sets to a pessimistic mindset.
