There isn't a problem with people getting out of bad relationships. And you just said it, people abandoning ship at first sign of trouble, is exactly the issue at hand. If you know you can get out of it, you will never fully commit in the right and most complete way. Why work hard at it at all when you can bail? It is a deep, stand by your committments, self respect, respecting the feelings and needs of the one you made the committment to, work hard at it mindset that you need to have to make any relationship work. We live in a selfish, lazy, bail out, let down, pick and choose morality society that will ruin you if you buy into it. If you are a christian, a true christian, you will not pick and choose and live that morally inept life. I am by no means perfect, but I know there is a higher moral authority than my own, so I try to figure out why we should live by these "archaic" ways. Anyway, ANY relationship is difficult and it takes much more respect and consideration than just doing it because you feel like it.  |