What you are experiencing is what almost every couple experiences at some point in their relationship/marriage. It is easy to get tired of your mate, irritated by the most minor things. It is difficult however, to retain the admiration and respect for someone when you start forgetting what attracted you to them, what you respected about them in the first place. That is one reason that marriages are so difficult. Maybe you haven't experienced enough of life and other relationships yet to make the kind of commitment you have made with her. She sounds like a fantastic, loving, FORGIVING, understanding woman. Are you ready for her?
On another note, living together before marriage is not a good idea. I don't want to hear from all the "do what ever you want" people. Too many studies on this subject have proven that it is detrimental to a relationship, especially after marriage. We live in a "If it doesn't work, I can get out of it" mindset that destroys the ability to keep with that kind of committment. That mindset doesn't change after you get married either. Be careful and I hope you work this out.  |