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Originally Posted by Angela  Seeker5, I'm sorry that you were disappointed! I wonder what makes the 20% unmatchable with eHarmony -- I know they're very marriage-oriented, could it be that you don't fall into that demographic? |
Yeah, their computer system doesn't know what to do with me, and the other 20%.
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But really, I wonder if this isn't a wonderful thing that the computer gave you the boot. I say that because in light of your new commitments regarding love, I wonder if the universe is insisting that your encounters be more real-world based, nudging you away from the keyboard and into another realm of relationship? I know you have had great success in communicating and meeting an incredible woman online ( ) and I wonder if now you're being given the opportunity to take your new-ish skills and ways of being into your in-person communications?
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Heh, perhaps. The irony for me is that with RC I wasn't seeking to develop anything online. For years, I refused categorically to have anything romantic to do with any women who wasn't within a 20-30 mile radius of where I live. From the experience I had with RC, I completely changed my opinion on that, hence while I was willing to look into eHarmony.
Not as a way to meet woman online, but to broaden my possibilities from this little town (pop: 47,000), I live in the middle of nowhere to the entire world
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Originally Posted by PianoManGidley eHarmony has a lot of problems like these...from what I understand, if you're gay and/or non-Christian, you don't have much likelihood of getting much out of that site. |
Ah, that may be it! I'm non-Christian and put "Spiritual, but not religious" and indicated it was important for me to find someone with the same spiritual beliefs.