Seeker5, I'm sorry that you were disappointed! I wonder what makes the 20% unmatchable with eHarmony -- I know they're very marriage-oriented, could it be that you don't fall into that demographic?
But really, I wonder if this isn't a wonderful thing that the computer gave you the boot. I say that because in light of your new commitments regarding love, I wonder if the universe is insisting that your encounters be more real-world based, nudging you away from the keyboard and into another realm of relationship? I know you have had great success in communicating and meeting an incredible woman online (
) and I wonder if now you're being given the opportunity to take your new-ish skills and ways of being into your in-person communications?
Just speculating.