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there seem to be more red flags with this girl than can be overcome, based on what you've said. No I don't know her and perhaps she does make you happy, but that happiness could come at a price. The three children thing really concerns me. You should research the legal situation where you live and make sure you don't get suckered into child support. Sounds absurd but in Washington state just living with a woman and her kids for six months makes you liable. Even if you don't have to pay for the kids they really add a seperate element into this that complicates things big time. It just sounds like she's got a lot of baggage in general. Perhaps you do as well and that's why you make a good match, but I just see it as a powder keg waiting to explode. But perhaps deep down that is what you are looking for?