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Originally Posted by WRX AJT  She knows I really like her, so by not calling her its going to "eat" her up inside cause I'm not doing anything, nor am I showing that I'm "upset" or sad about it. I'm just leaving it alone for a while and seeing where it will pan out.
After all this happened on Saturday, I just did what I do best...and raced. There's something about the sound of my engine and my exhaust that really calms me down. LOL
In the mean time, I'll continue living life a 1/4 mile at a time with the throttle wide open and a stupid grin on my face because life is to short to be upset or sad.
Thank you everyone for either telling me I'm an idiot or helping me figure out what my next move is!  |
You sound like you have the right state of mind in place, good stuff, that's the way to be!
You're not an idiot, I never said that, don't think anyone else said that either.
It's tough opening up even in an anonymous discussion forum like this but at least you're getting alot of good feedback, various opinions,etc. They all give you different angles to look at your issue with - it's necessary because sometimes we're looking at our problems in a specific way, other people having a viewpoint on your problem give you another way to look at it and it helps because sometimes unless someone points it out, you may not have looked it like that.
Love the bit about the throttle wide open, it's good to have a way to release the energy and getting an endorphin rush is always awesome, keep doing it if it makes you feel good.
I think you have the right idea, limit your contact with your gf, if she wants to call you in a bit when she figures things have cooled down, she will. And if she doesn't, maybe she wasn't all that you thought she was and if so, better to find out now, then later.
Take it easy bro, let us know how it works out!!!