[blueberry]

Originally Posted by uberinquisitive

I doubt he's so devious. You're projecting your own fears onto him, and then scapegoating him.

If you don't like him always harping on you - stay out of the house as many hours a day as possible! It's as easy as that. Hang out at a coffee shop that has wireless. Bring your laptop and do what you usually do. Or go to the library and read. Go see a movie a day, by yourself. Go to a bar at night and meet new people. For very little money, you can keep yourself occupied ALL DAY.

Why are you trying to explain things to him? So he'll understand? Why should he understand? There isn't some law that says he has to understand. He's being himself. You're being yourself.

Let it go.

Okay, okay. Today I woke up and I had my head straight. It's so easy to get caught up in the ego driven dance of drama and then occupied by the obsessive calculations and limitations based thinking my mind loves to hijack me with. And god forbid, I forget myself and think I'm a victim.

I get you. I don't want to give anybody here excuses. Especially myself.

You're a harsh lady. I like you. I feel like your posts smack me in the head like Rafiki (the butt monkey) whacks Simba in the head in The Lion King every time he gives stupid answers.