 unfortunately...
you could be the rebound relationship after her breakup with her ex.
If that's the case, the odds are against a successful relationship (not impossible at all but unlikely)
- you've only been seeing each for a few weeks, leave it at that.
Don't call her, don't text her.
You can reply back to her calls, texts, emails but don't attach yourself so closely to her. Don't be clingy & needy, definitely a turnoff.
Don't be controlling either, major turn off for women.
Just be a man. If she's into you, she will call you.
Don't buy her roses, and dinners and presents to win her over, that doesn't work either, you'll just have an empty wallet after that experience.
Keep the relationship fun, go out, hang out but don't put her on a pedestal and keep yourself on the ground, maintain the balance, your equal to her and she has nothing over you & vice versa.
If she wants to hang out with other friends or her ex, let her. In the end the only actions you can control are your own, you can't control her actions and technically you wouldn't want to either. If you want her to be in to you and to be attracted to you, just be you and be a man, maintain your masculinity, don't change to be someone she'll like better, just be you.  |