What do you actually want from us? Our suggestions? On which of the following?
1. How to stop yourself yelling at your sister and making her life miserable?
2. Or how to stop thinking that she is an idiot?
3. Or how to mind your own business?
4. Or how to feel good about yourself?
5. Or about what you should do?
Which one is it? If its something else, let us know.
You think she is an idiot. Fine. Just continue to believe this. If in the future she does something which can change your belief, think over this when the time comes. So, for the time being, relax, think that she is a stupid and let her live her life on her own. Keep everything else for the future.
She is 18 years old. Importance of good grades are usually clear to people at this age. If she is not serious about this, maybe she is just not interested in getting good grades. The reason can be anything: maybe is is interested in something else and does not consider studies to be her cup of tea. Or it could be you who constantly remind her of her hopelessness in studies and push her more towards negativity.
Beauty is not all about looks. Its actually the inner beauty that makes a person look and feel good. You should have your own motive in life, your own passion and you should spend your life in nurturing your passions. Give your helping hand to your sister only when she needs it. How can a person with a free and open mind with a respect for self and others appear ugly? You definitely are not ugly. Its all in your mind. Just think you are beautiful...try neurolinguistic programming at Steve's blog. It will help for sure.  |