YourSelf, you may not have 100% created the situation, maybe you did. But you do have total control over it, or at least as much control as you allow yourself. You can't say that about everything, but these are human interactions. And in that you have near total control, it's all in your subcommunication. For more indepth, just read Brutha's thing.
Brutha gives excellent practical advice (you too Angela!). Have you heard of the Blueprint Decoded? There's a thread around, you might want to check that out. It's the most indepth into social interaction of anything I've ever seen. This'll really put everything we're telling you into perspective.
Just remember, you dictate how people react to you through the strength of your reality. You dictate the energy of the social interaction. YOU are in control.
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