Sometimes friends don't see what you need. I think you should start on giving more value to your friends, and expecting less in return (be reasonable of course, don't be a spineless guy).
Listen to your friends, meet up with them, have fun. Stop worrying about who calls who.
I came from a similar place to what you described, but once I stopped viewing friendship as a give & take relationship, and focused on just being a friend and giving value, my friendships have never been as strong.
It is as Steve says. You give out and it eventually comes back at you. Karma.
Just my 2$, hope it helps.
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