I had an interesting conversation with my employee yesterday. She was telling me about her best friend who is wicked hot(her words)...her friend does not think so... I said that looks are fleeting. What I meant by that is that our looks change over the course of our lives based on what is going on inside of us. She illustrated this point by explaining that sometimes people look completely different when we meet them, but sometimes we see the beauty when we get to know the real person. I can think of a lot of people who are plenty attractive on the outside and very ugly on the inside.. and that ugliness shows through. Beauty shows through when there is a beautiful person on the inside.Ugly people on the inside do get treated different.ly because they allow themselves to be treated that way. IF you think you are unattractive then so will a lot of people.I have been called ugly plenty of times in my life and sometimes my attitude has matched.Try looking in the mirror and think about good things and things that bring you the most joy in life... then do the same with all the negatives in life and see how different you look. There is an energy that radiates from the inside that overrides our looks and often enhances them. G
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