 Miserable (GF Seeing Ex?)
Hey everyone! I'm hoping you all could help me.
Anyway, I started dating this girl about 2 weeks ago and everything was going perfect. Today poo hit the fan and lemme tell you...there was a lot! I got out of work early and gave her a call only to find out she's hanging out with her ex-boyfriend of three (3) years. I understand that it's hard to let someone you've dated go, but a little warning would have been nice. I asked her what she's doing later tonite (because we had plans) and all she said was "I'm going to hangout for a little....I'll call you later tonite." At this point I'm seriously mad, so I drive home and try to relax. On a side note, I'm a really laid back guy who rarely gets mad but when I do it's like WW3. She calls me like 15 minutes after I get home and tells me she's going to visit a friend of hers that's having guy trouble. I told her that's fine and to give me a ring when she's done. About 20 minutes after that she calls and by this point I'm mad enough to punch about 30 holes in my wall...which I didn't. I find it really hard for me to express my feelings, but I was so angry that I told her. All she could say was "Sorry." She then went on to say that she doesn't know if we'd hangout tonite blah blah blah. After asking her what she's doing tonite instead, she said she didn't know. For the love of Pete...we had made plans on Monday night to hangout. After that she tells me that maybe she rushed into this relationship blah blah blah. Seriously?!?! Why would you tell me face to face that you're EXTREMELY happy with me and you've never been happier? I can't even get down her street before she would call or txt me saying she misses me. *IF ONLY YOU COULD READ SOME OF HER EMAILS TO ME YOU'D UNDERSTAND!* Anywho, I'm wondering if maybe she's going back to her ex-boyfriend? I left her a txt message saying "Hey, I'm sorry about getting mad earlier today...hope you have fun tonite" and she didn't even respond. I seriously don't know what to do right now...it's like my happiness is gone and I feel horrible.
Since we didn't hangout and I was really mad, I decided to go out for a drive which included some high speed freeway runs and like 5 hours of just driving around. For those of you that aren't car people, there is something about the sound of an engine and exhaust that really helps calm me down.
WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO NEXT?!?!
Thanks in advance...  |