Mazhar, all of those things you fear happening might actually happen. Also, 99 gazillion other things might happen. Actually more than that -- that's just the biggest number that sprang from my fingers at the moment. 99 gazillion times 99 gazillion times... well, you know.
To stop yourself from doing what you are passionate about doing because of what might happen is to prevent yourself from really being alive.
Of course, if you're not passionate about what you're thinking about doing, then maybe it's time to rethink what you're doing!
All there is to do in life is to take your next right action, to be present, to enjoy the moment you're in, and to make corrections if you need to. Every action you take could as easily be construed as a triumph or a mistake, depending on your perspective, and you are free to change your perspective at any moment.
You are the one in charge of living a life you love, whatever happens, and you can count on some of it being uncomfortable. If I were you, I'd start by noticing that you say "can't" when you really mean "won't." Big difference in the personal power available to you.
So, what are you going to do?  |