The point is, LifeFirst... in certain situations (especially public nightclubs with lots of horny men and women) there are many unwritten rules that seem to be respected by all.
But even today I wouldn't expect a girlfriend I'm together with since just 3 weeks to help me if some big shots came to threaten me. I would expect her to look at how I would react and judge me accordingly...
When I go, I usually go to nightclubs and parties where I am invited or I know some of the people organizing it. Elsewhere, although I despise it very much, "it's a mafia world after all", where there are subtle honor codes defending the survival of the fittest.
Nice advice Fullcrum. I also try being funny and superior and so... but I admit that sometimes I do feel threatened mainly because I wouldn't survive any fight (not because I'm a chicken, but because I have physical problems preventing me from developing physical strength - I have an invisible disability so to say).
Recently a similar situation occured, and while I tried laughing and just playing down what they were trying to communicate, they spilled a drink on my face, stuck out their tongue and started laughing arrogantly.
It always happens when they are groups of men. It really seems as if they organize everything they do beforehand, they move in packs and do real teamwork to get what they want.
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