"Hey my friend we're taking over now..."
I was obviously confused and trying to figure out who they actually were.
While one guy started distracting the girl, the other guy just put an arm around me and said,
"Hey, have you already tried fighting five against one? No? Well, you better get lost or might have to experience exactly that ""
In situations like that I play it OVER THE TOP and TO THE HILT. I capitalize that to show excitement - it's not negative that they're doing that, it actually increases my fun and enjoyment! I would have been like "Hell yeah man! Yeah, awesome! Teach me! Teach me your ways! HAHAHAH!" Just crazy. You say you were confused and trying to figure out who they were. That's funny, because if someone treats me like that I really don't give a thing about who they are. You were in a fundamental mode of reaction, like "Who are THOSE guys?!" Instead, play your own game. I'd just tool their ass. It sounds harsh but it's what the situation calls for. No joke, they'll actually respect you more, you'll get the girl, and even make new friends. Some people prefer being treated like that, having someone tool back on them.
And with the girlfriend thing, do take her to clubs, it doesn't matter that dudes want to dance with her unless she doesn't like it. They're not taking her home at the end of the night. Just dominate, get in there all happy and positive (when you're happy and positive they move, not when you're "trying to wedge your way in" like some puppy dog) and pull her out of there. It's really that simple.
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