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Originally Posted by Shaden  - Dumped me six times in six months
- Kissed two other guys during our relationship, once when she was completely sober
- Accused me of only wanting her for sex - an odd accusation since I never talked about sex with her and am very much a virgin.
- Spent a week propositioning me. This culminated in one night where she said she would love to get back together with me. Yet the very next day she started dating someone I know and she didn't apologise for two days. |
Shaden, I just have one thing to say (and I really do mean this in the nicest way possible)... Why do you still want anything to do with this girl?
I can totally understand your desire to remain friends, but at this point it sounds like she's just too immature for you. Don't go down the path of hatred, but make no attempt to become her best friend, at least until you can trust her.
With that said, breaking your ties with her may work to your advantage in another way. Women are attracted to a challenge; if you're chasing her and worshipping the ground she walks on, she has no (instinctual) reason to be faithful to you - you're not going anywhere, so she acts how she likes. But if you completely do a 180, one of two things is going to happen: Either she will do the same and you'll spend the rest of your lives mainly ignoring each other (not such a bad idea IMO), or if she really does have feelings for you, she'll come roaring back to you when she realizes that she's lost you. If this does happen, DO NOT cave in; she may like you, but she needs to regain your trust first. Good luck!