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Originally Posted by {aspiring_to_clarity}  Third, I don't believe it can be conclusively said that the best interest of the child is to have both parents 24/7.
My main point is, instead of looking at how you are a victim of your situation, how about taking steps to make sure you are in your daughter's life. Someone who deserts his child deserves the title "deadbeat dad" to me. There are plenty such men. This is not your wife's fault or yours. It's just reality. |
Cold, cold, cold...
Don't you think you should maybe offer some console? Instead you are saying "don't be a victim", "hey you don't need to be in your child's live 24/7", "there are plenty of deadbeat men", "its not your wife's fault" "its just reality"
These are soft jabs but jabs still...
C'mon get a heart.
All that energy to give Amadeus his wife's side... He loves her and she is leaving him.
If a female was posting the same thing about her husband leaving her you'd say "I can't believe your husband is leaving you and your baby.. He committed to you right? ... Is he cheating on you... What a creep leaving his wife and young baby"
I'll be my butt that your comments to Amadeus would be completely different if he were a female.
I'm not saying your comments are wrong but just simply COLD !