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Originally Posted by Angela  Enrim, I'm sorry that you're hurting.
Of course men and women can be friends after a situation like yours. But for everyone's happiness and comfort, it would be a good idea for you to go out and make some new friends, and let some time pass so that you can heal and are not "needing" something or yearning for something from him that he is not going to provide for you. That would just make everyone uncomfortable and put more space between you.
As my Grandpa George used to say, it'll feel better when it quits hurtin'. Meanwhile, you know you can love someone and be a good friend, so go out and be that.
Best wishes,
Angela |
Makes so much sense. Thank you for the response. I know there is so much more for me in life, I know I will meet new people, will find love and friendship. But it is also very scary to be on my own, knowing that there is nobody to back me up... But I take it as it is, and go on. I know everything will change. Thankfully, I haven't lost myself in this whole mess, I actually feel like I found myself.