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I don't think you will have much success with the LoA if you keep instisting on applying blame on people (events, circumstances, etc.) outside of yourself. The reason is: there IS NO outside of yourself! You are responsible.

Alvin makes a great point about one's level of consciousness. If you can expand your level of awareness, you will break down the faulty filters of the ego, and progressively see reality (you) as it is. A great analogy I heard goes like this: It's like staring into a dirty mirror, as you wipe away the dirt (of your ego filters) you see the real you, clearer and clearer.

Your other questions are interesting, but irrelivent. If you want to see if and how LoA works for you, you must ask yourself questions that are less hypothetical, and more resourseful. Just seeing blonde people isn't a resourseful intention, and would only serve to add to the disfunctional filters of your ego. Why not set an intention to experience LoA? Start with something small -- intend to attract a cup of coffee today...

This isn't science fiction. LoA and IM aren't magic. They are simply tools to help you take control of your life and live it to the full. Participate!

And remember, assigning blame, and being the victim, will not put you in a high enough "vibration" to attract what you want. When you do this, you are focusing on what you do not want! And will attract more of that instead.