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Old 04-25-2008, 06:44 AM
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Originally Posted by LifeFirst View Post
I'm a senior in college right now, and there's a freshmen female who is, to say the least, attracted to me. I can tell, it's so obvious. Thing is, I think she knows about me from her friends or something (who are people I know). She's really pretty, looks like an excellent student, sings really well. What can I do?? I've never talked to her but the attraction is there, we see each other from time to time. And I'll pretend that I don't see her, and I know that she's checking me out from the corner. I can't do anything about it. Just have to let it go. This attraction is not reasonable in any way.
Why?

I agree with your other examples (of socially accepted attraction) but I fail to see what separates a freshman and a senior but a few years of education. Why would that make attraction between the two unreasonable?

Maybe you're just telling yourself this because you don't want to find out where this attraction leads, if you let it run free?

Oh, and Spartan, smiling at attractive girls is not immature at all. I would say it is rather healthy, not to mention often appreciated - all people like to be smiled at
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