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Originally Posted by Nani  NickW, in my case I want to change my brother in his smoking habits because it's unhealthy. There's no benefit at all to smoking and he knows that, and he's expressed a desire to quit but just can't seem to do it. I'm not annoying him about it or forcing him to quit because I recognize it is his decision through and through, which is why this indirect approach of working on yourself and seeing others change accordingly appealed to me. |
Oh, OK....just semantic confusion. To me, this isn't "changing others;" it's offerring someone help and support in kicking a bad habit.
Not much more you can do. People choose their destinies. You can only do so much for someone.