I think you should know the answer. Logic-wise it's not too hard to know when the attraction is reasonable. If you're attracted to a 14-year old girl....then of course that's not reasonable. If you're the manager and you're attracted to one of your employees.....then it's not very reasonable. If you're attracted to your brother's wife, it's not reasonable.
I'm a senior in college right now, and there's a freshmen female who is, to say the least, attracted to me. I can tell, it's so obvious. Thing is, I think she knows about me from her friends or something (who are people I know). She's really pretty, looks like an excellent student, sings really well. What can I do?? I've never talked to her but the attraction is there, we see each other from time to time. And I'll pretend that I don't see her, and I know that she's checking me out from the corner. I can't do anything about it. Just have to let it go. This attraction is not reasonable in any way. |