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Originally Posted by Dating Specialist  Hmm, why did you say that kthdsn? Don't you find that to keep a relationship alive, loving and fulfilling needs effort from each person?
Why is a good relationship easy and natural? Are you referring to the understanding of each other part, or is it because compromsing to you is not an issue at all since you are so motivated to making your husband happy and that naturally becomes your first priority? I'm just keen to know as it sounds like you are such a happy couple, and you're doing it like a breeze! Whoo 
I know most relationships do need effort, some lots of it. For eg, imagine your partner and you are both very busy in their careers, and if none of you are willing to make the effort to make time for each other (sit down and chat, go out for movies/dinner) then do you think the relationship can last or will be a happy one? |
I don't feel that my marriage is an effort in any way at all. I enjoy spending time with husband and it just comes easily to me. I don't have to juggle other things to fit him in, because being with him is what I want to do above anything else. He feels the same way about me.
We simply wouldn't choose a career or job that didn't allow us to spend time together. In fact he deliberately chose his job because it fits in around our family life and allows us to spend the most time together.
We don't really TRY to make things work, they just automatically fall into place. It's as if we're the perfect fit for each other and when we met, we just slotted together. When I go off to do something on my own I can't wait to get back and share it with him. I can't wait to hear about what he has been up to. There is just no effort needed.