I have the same problem. I like Angela's idea that those "materialistic" (for a lack of better term) goals could be expressions of the "esoteric" goals.
Now I only have to tell my family that I want to live my life in a creative and engaging way, not necessarily a safe and secure, but boring way. It's way too airy fairy, and I need something concrete to show them. Some kind of an action plan. Heart based action plan, changing every moment..
