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Old 04-23-2008, 06:53 PM   #8 (permalink)
JimOfferman
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Originally Posted by Joukai View Post
Be happy when you are single; but don't give up on what you want.

That is it. Live you life to the fullest, and if the best vision of your life includes a relationship(s) then go and get it
Agreed! Absolutely. Although I don't think there exists one best vision of your life - there's a handful at least, probably more (think abundance, not scarcity)

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nevermind the pain!
I don't think so. Not necessarily. Pain can't always be avoided, of course... but if the path you are on is only bringing you pain and no results, you are free to choose a different path. Maybe you don't want to do that, because the path you are on holds such a big promise at the end that it is worth going through all the pain. Maybe another paths holds an even greater promise - without all the pain.
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