I am 35,and have been single for 33 of those years. It sucks. I tried and still try to be happy alone,and a lot of the time i'm ok. But there are always those "other times". You can't run from it. My advice to you is to work on your confidence and self esteem. I know it's hard though,because being rejected MAKES you lose those things,so,i dont really know how to fix them,since i'm in the same boat. I've tried reading books on how to improve your social skills,make people fall in love with you,etc. but its so damn hard to change who you are inside. And it sucks admitting you are less than what you wanted to believe. Good luck to you,and remember there are others in your same situation,who are even older than you.
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