Do you want to be good with women or good at women, like some people are good at tennis? Women as a sport.
Then, the PUA life seems to be for you.
I have read The Game, the Mystery Method and gathered information on a number of websites. Seduction is a fascinating subject.
I think improving social skills is a good thing, and most of the information given is very useful in that department.
However, I think the so-called seduction method used by PUA works on very young, very naive/limited women who are not strong enough to handle their sexual life and need to be seduced into having sex instead of acting upon their desire.
The tricks suggested in these books to prove a man's value, such as reading palms or carrying a bag of runes around, sound laughable to me. But I'd say if using a method gives you confidence, it might be a good first step. Maybe later on you can ditch the bag of tricks.
I think looking for what is seductive in yourself would be better than making yourself seductive by applying methods.
Also, there might be a chance for you or the women you prey on to fall in love or get a broken heart.The method to mend that sort of mess is not in a book.
If you are interested in seduction, I would recommend the book by Robert Greene: The Art of Seduction. It's a great read and is full of timeless information.  |