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Originally Posted by Vasilisa  Then why become so emotional?  |
I wasn't emotional, but quite level headed and calm when I wrote that.
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It simply means you haven't been in love.
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Do not make that presumption.
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When we love we persive another person worthy of our effort and want to show that we will be good partners.
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There is a difference between wanting to show someone what kind of partner you will be and the need for having to prove one's worth as a lover. The latter, in my opinion, stems from a lack of self-confidence. You'll say you must prove yourself to the other, but really you must prove to yourself that you are worthy of being someone's lover.
I have no doubts about being a worthy lover, hence also no need to prove myself.
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Especially men, it's in your nature. You enjoy a good chase, admit it or not.
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That is a gross generalization. No, I don't enjoy a good chase, not one bit. I find the whole cat and mouse game of "give a little, withdraw a little" to be moronic and women who like to draw the game out definitely do not have my fancy.