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Originally Posted by Faye  ... he would get mad at me if i don't work out and don't try to look my best, so unfortunately that is already the case. i would not want to embarrass him. |
God, Faye, each new thing you tell us about him makes him sound more and more awful! You are in love with this guy? Don't answer that, I know, you're in love with him, you've got your reasons. From an outsider's perspective, though, I'd just like you to know how really NOT a loving, long-term mutually beneficial relationship (LLTMBR) this is. I am saying this to you because it took a girlfriend telling me, in my similar situation, just how hideously I was behaving by handing my power, my choices, my personality, and my responsibility over to a man before I took a bold look and realized how I was stinking up my own life.
And all your "yeah,buts" all add up to "Yeah, but I LOVE HIM!!!!" (which is the chorus of what I call the Chicken Opera, and lots of us have sung it!
).
Just because you love someone, though -- even if it's A LOT -- that doesn't necessarily mean you're good partners together. Good LLTMBR partners help each other feel better, in every possible way. Does Mr. Menage do that for you?