Originally Posted by JimOfferman
Welcome to the forum. I was reading the posts here and this one line jumped off the paper for me:
This does not a good relationship make!
The whole polyamory thing isn't even relevant. You should simply never have to be afraid of your partner! He may rain on your parade every now and then (nobody is perfect), but that's it.
If you fear his temper, do what is best for you and bow out of this relationship with love sooner rather than later (when things get ugly).
JimOfferman!!! thank you so much for the welcome. it is nice to talk to you.
it is just that i am rather skittish. i don't like to make anyone angry, especially him. it is really difficult for me to ever be angry and when he is mad he says the most awful things. i think that is normal though, right? some people just have a bad temper. sometimes i wish i were the fiery sort of person who can stand up to things like that, but when i think about it, it probably would just make it even worse.