Originally Posted by sheffy4
It sounds like a lot of your energy is aimed at giving things to him and the relationship.
What does he give you? What do you give yourself?
hi, sheffy4, it is so nice to hear from you again!!
there are some things that he does for me -- he listens to me and helps me to make some decisions. i am not very good at it to be honest. i can drive around town for an hour not being able to figure out where or what to eat and then never end up eating anything!
sometimes he will take me to a movie or if i ask if we can go to the park, then he will take us there for a little while.