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Originally Posted by Erki  But what if they only think they know what's best for me? Who at all knows what is best for me? |
who knows what is best for you? that is an age old question that people wonder about often. sometimes just not worrying about what is best is best. that way there's not a lot of hemming and hawing about this and that and you become decisive.
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I don't know. I don't even want them to be on "my side" that much... I just want to get away from them, if even just for a while and do things on my own, or with some other people who I listen more than my parents.
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well then you are in rebel mode. and I have know idea if your parents have your best interest at heart - although most do. they may not know what's best but usually they care a ton.
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But what on earth do you need guidance about? It seems like you are not really looking at what you need to decide but rather interested in just the meta level of paralyzation in not deciding.
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yeah, didn't make sense, ha? might not be you that does this, but sometimes people like to have issues to have a story about themselves to get attention. then I speculated that your story is not being able to decide somethings on your own - which is a good story since then you get to ask people what to do.
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Should I smoke cigs or not? Should I drive a BMW or an Audi? Should I go for a blonde or a brunette? These are just a selection of my life's biggest questions.  |
don't smoke. Audi. blond.
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And: I have no business in anything about being cool or not fitting in. Others of course might perceive it as being so, though.
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if you have no business in anything about being cool or not fitting in - why did you start a post that said:
I'm just doing things because other people told me so and I am gullible, or that I want to "fit in" or be "cool". Or it's just "hormones" or what not.