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Originally Posted by wolfgang  your parents want what's best for you, I'm sure. And they hopefully are batting for you big time so work with them as much as you can. |
But what if they only think they know what's best for me? Who at all knows what is best for me?
I don't know. I don't even want them to be on "my side" that much... I just want to get away from them, if even just for a while and do things on my own, or with some other people who I listen more than my parents.
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Originally Posted by wolfgang But what on earth do you need guidance about? It seems like you are not really looking at what you need to decide but rather interested in just the meta level of paralyzation in not deciding. |
Pardon?
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Originally Posted by wolfgang I mean, are you trying to figure out if you should smoke cigs or not? Or what? |
Should I smoke cigs or not? Should I drive a BMW or an Audi? Should I go for a blonde or a brunette? These are just a selection of my life's biggest questions.
And: I have no business in anything about being cool or not fitting in. Others of course might perceive it as being so, though.