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Originally Posted by Erki  Well, I should ask my parents for guidance, they know be best... at least that's what they think. But the people who I ask for guidance are quite different from my parents. I'd rather be like thos other people, not like my parents. But I should be more like my parents.  |
your parents want what's best for you, I'm sure. And they hopefully are batting for you big time so work with them as much as you can.
The word "should" is a very parental word btw.
But what on earth do you need guidance about? It seems like you are not really looking at what you need to decide but rather interested in just the meta level of paralyzation in not deciding. I mean, are you trying to figure out if you should smoke cigs or not? Or what?
If it's how to be cool. One way to be cool is to not fit in at all. There are tons of people that are cool that way and know each other, at least that's been my experience. Be a rebel against having to be cool and you will be cool.
