What is it that you ask others advice for? Do you really follow what they say - like take a survey and then take your action based an an average of what everyone else said? Just trying to sense how you use the advice.
If you are trying to be liked by others by doing what they think you should do or you doing what you think they want from you - realize that that is ironically not the way to be liked - at least authentically. People, at least in my experience, like people that have their own way of being and doing what they want and deciding. That doesn't mean you can't join others in something that you also like doing. |