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Originally Posted by Erki  I'm young and stupid, inexperienced and immature. I can't make good decisions by myself. Etc etc. Nothing I say or do is authentic. I'm just doing things because other people told me so and I am gullible, or that I want to "fit in" or be "cool". Or it's just "hormones" or what not. |
Hello Erki,
If you don't mind me saying, I detect a lack of self esteem here. I think you need to start with loving yourself. You sure sound like you have plenty of negative beliefs. There is no need to feel disheartened though; I've been there and the good news is that it is possible to remove your limiting thoughts for more empowering ones.
When you start to love yourself, you also reap the benefits of trusting yourself and forgiving yourself, even if you have made a mistake. Just because someone is older, doesn't mean that they are necessarily wiser. You can choose to nourish your mind with positive beliefs and knowledge.
Hence, work on your negative beliefs first and give yourself space for loving. To work on negative beliefs, I recommend you try out this method known as EFT found here
EFT Provides Impressive Health and Emotional Freedom--New Discovery Often Works Where Nothing Else.
If you need any more suggestions, feel free to PM me.
With hugs,
Evelyn