I'm in the same position as you...never been in a relationship. I've also never quite fallen in love. Now I know a lot of women and have women friends, but I've never really loved any of them. I feel quite lonely sometimes and it hurts, especially when I see other guys with their girlfriends, but I'm gradually coming to realize that there seems to be something of a reason: I'm at a point in life where I need to devote a lot of time to building myself intellectually. Though being in a relationship would make me happy, I've realized that my intellectual development is more important (and yes I am very happy when I'm actively pursuing it). Is there something similar in your life at the moment?
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