 Chosing a partner between several "admirers"
What would be your mindset or logic with which you would approach this problem?
Let's say four girls/guys who don't know each other explicitly told you that they like you and you have clear evidence that they would like to be your partner.
Let's also say that you like all four, but it's hard for you to decide which one you would be in a relationship with...
What would be your criteria?
1. Would you ponder long about the pro's and con's about each of the four "candidates" or just spontaneously choose one randomly?
2. Would you go with the one who you think "deserves" you most, or choose the one whom you like most?
And now something slightly more related to my own situation:
3. You know one of the four girls since less time than the other three, and perhaps because of that you are more attracted to her, the charm is still fresh and stronger... would you discard her in favor of the other three candidates?
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